You may be familiar with the cliché that leadership is about influence and not title. I believe this applies to purpose too. As you pursue God’s purpose for your life, it is expected that your influence grows as the sphere of your impact increases. But then, I think it is necessary to point out that influence really is an inevitable consequence of our social existence. Whether or not we live for God’s purposes, we will have some influence on the people around us. I recently read the story of a man who once dreamed that he was in hell. When asked to give an account of what he had seen—if there were flames there, and suffering there, and wrecked and malign creatures with whom he had to associate, and if the place resounded with oaths of blasphemy—he said, “Yes, but there was something far worse than that: I was compelled to face my influence. I knew that I deserved punishment, for I had scorned and rejected Jesus Christ; but my sorest pain was to see what the effect of my life had been upon others.”

It is important therefore, that we understand the dynamics of influence so that we can be intentional about the positivity of our influence and the purposefulness of our impact. Someone narrated the story of the missionary Dr. John Geddie who went to Aneityum in 1848 and worked there for 24 years. On the tablet erected to his memory, it was inscribed that “When he landed, in 1848, there were no Christians. When he left, in 1872, there were no heathen.” That is the kind of influence God expects from our lives and such can only be cultivated with intentionality.

I want to share very briefly some thoughts on how I believe we can grow our influence intentional. There are at least three things we must do to be able to lead purposefully and with greater influence.


Someone has observed that the opinion of each of us represents at least one four-billionth of the world’s opinion. What this means is that what we say has the potential to become the reality a large number of people. This is why we must be intentional about the message we preach in the pursuit of our purposes. What is your message? What is the transformation you expect to happen by the sound of your voice?


There are several reasons why this point is important. The word platform itself is a metaphor for a stage on which you are elevated above the crowd. It makes it possible for everyone in the audience to see you and be influenced by you. Thus, a platform provides visibility and helps to amplify your voice above the roar of the crowd. If you will become a person of positive influence, you have to intentionally create a platform by seeking to understand the various ways you can reach out to your target audience. Today, the social media is a very powerful for influencing people.


It is not enough to clarify your message and create a platform for you to share your message, it is important that you crown the process with consistent effort to communicate your message. You have to be decisive about this. Don’t create a blog and never write. Don’t open a twitter account and never tweet. You have to be disciplined enough to commit yourself to consistently communicating your message on the platform you have created.

Bobby Gilstrap rightly instructs us to never minimize the power of influence for either good or evil for long after we are dead and gone, our influence will live on. This is the more reason why we have to be intentional about clarifying our message, creating a platform and consistently communicating our messages. I’ll close with the following poem. Its source is unknown. I hope you find it as instructive as I did:

My life shall touch a dozen lives before this day is done;
Leave countless marks for good or ill, ere sets the evening sun.
This is the wish I always wish, the prayer I always pray:
Lord, may my life help other lives it touches by the way.


Let me know in the comment section.

You matter to me always.


The Sands of Time


When I think about the quality of the impact my life will be remembered for, I always imagine that my works will outlive me. You know, leaving my footprints in the sands of time. I think we all share this aspiration. Perhaps, it is a shared mark of our humanity to seek to create legacies by which we are known even long after we are gone. But how do we go about leaving our footprints of time? How should we live if we will matter beyond our time? What is the secret of men who have by the work of their hands accomplished immortality?

I believe there are no straight jacket answers to these questions. However, creating and maintaining the culture of excellence appears to be a principle that has worked for men across times and borders. The legendary Michelangelo made a practice of excellence. He made mastery his core value and history remembers him for it. But he did not arrive at this point by accident. Once, he said “If  people  knew  how  hard  I  had  to work  to gain  my  mastery, it  would  not  seem  so wonderful at all”

Centuries ago, the great Aristotle quipped that “Excellence is not an act, it’s a habit.” Thus, we will do well to pay attention to this principle once again especially as regards the pursuit of why God has put us here in the first place.

  1. Excel at being who you are

Purpose is first about who we are before what we do. So, embracing excellence must begin with excelling at being who we are. You see, each of us was created by God with a mark of uniqueness that makes us stand out of the crowd. Our pursuit of excellence must first be about living out our uniqueness to the best of our God-given ability. You have to develop a resolve to release all of your deepest potentials before you sign out of this side of eternity. You have to commit yourself to revealing only the best version of you and nothing less.

  1. Excel at doing what you do

Sometime ago, I read an article in which John Maxwell wrote that to gain a reputation for excellence necessitates delivering results whenever you’re called upon. Hit-and-miss performers are neither trusted nor respected. On the other hand, those who repeatedly demonstrate competence gain credibility, and their credibility paves the way to influence. We all must come to the point in which we consistently give our best in all that we do every day irrespective of who is at the receiving end of our actions. Who you work for, the government or yourself, must not be a factor to determine how much effort you will put into your work.

Scripture says a man who is diligent in his work will stand before Kings and not mere men. What this means is that those who consistently deliver excellence in who they are and what they do always become sought after. Because they are constantly improving themselves making sure they are better today than they were yesterday, they never become outdated. They are those whose footprints stay in the sands of time never to be blown away by the wind of forgotten memories.

Blessed? I’ll love to hear your thoughts. Join the conversation.

You matter to me always.